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“Speak, Don’t Strike” — A Personal Reflection on the 5th of Tammuz

Today’s parsha reminds me that even Moshe Rabbeinu — the greatest of leaders — had a moment where he acted from pressure, frustration, or instinct rather than full alignment with Hashem’s will. And the consequence wasn’t just about water from a rock — it was about missing a deeper moment of connection, of emunah, and of divine presence.

So what does this mean for me today?

• I need to stay in a place of listening.
  Not just hearing — but being receptive. Sometimes Hashem’s guidance is soft, not dramatic. If I rush, react, or try to “force the outcome,” I might miss the quiet but powerful invitation to trust.
• I need to be careful with my speech.
  The difference between hitting and speaking is the difference between control and partnership. My words can create peace, blessing, understanding — or the opposite. Hashem didn’t want power from Moshe; He wanted connection. So too, my words today matter. I want them to reflect calm, faith, and sensitivity.
• I need to trust — truly trust — that Hashem is guiding me.
  Even when I don’t see it immediately. Even when things are uncertain. Bitachon means I don’t need to “hit” the situation — I can speak, pray, listen, and trust that Hashem is already preparing the flow I need. Gently. Faithfully.

Thank You for this beautiful day and the precious opportunity to make a Kiddush Hashem.
Thank You for my smart, energetic, and beautiful children—I love them so very much.

Like Moshe, may I not strike the rock in moments of frustration,
but hold myself with patience and trust,
allowing these moments of flusteredness to pass gently.

May I remain in a place of calm, flow, receptivity,
deep connection to myself and my children.
May I trust every moment as it comes.

May this day be filled with grace, love, purpose, and connection.
May I take every opportunity to sanctify You and Your Name.
May it be a true Kiddush Hashem.

Amen.